Gaydar and Incogno...

The Gay scene can be a tad more promiscuous than the straight scene.
The response to Incogno by gaydar members has been rather different to what we usually get. We would like to share some of the feedback from some Gaydar
members (positive and negative) to help you decide if Incogno is for you. Our responses are in red.

"talk easy avoid sleezy "

Note: The "village people" images are meant as a bit of fun.
(we did ask the chaps at Gaydar if they approved and they thought they were fun...)

Gaydar feedback on Incogno: (Adult content alert!)

“I use the chat rooms and private chat in gaydar a lot. I only have a work mobile phone so was always reluctant to give out my number. Incogno has let me give out my number and I have had some very horny chats! And even met a few of them!”

Incogno: Where Incogno has proved to be successful is in taking the chat room or private chat to the next level. Incogno lets you publicly give out a phone number for those who like to get horny on the phone.

“I travel to london by train every day and always see this guy that I really fancy. I have always been too scared to say anything... but last week I left a note with my incogno in his bag... and he phoned me! He unfortunately isn't gay but is keen to go for a drink with me... "

Incogno: Incogno is designed to empower the user to be more comfortable with giving out their phone number. Well done and best of luck!!!!

Remember, as an owner of an Incogno, you are not charged when someone calls your number.

“I'm a bisexual woman and I recently joined #### to get to know more women like myself. Unfortunately my first expereinces have been men pretending to be woman on the site. I now use my Incogno to ask these people to phone me so they can prove they are who they say they are. Works a treat! "

Incogno: There are many "timewasters" on the internet. Talking on the phone is a fast way to get to know someone!

“I didn't have a problem with handing out my mobile number to guys I met until this one guy got a bit scarey. I have a partner and was having a bit of fun on the side... this guy kept calling me and texting me!! I had to change my mobile number and it was a real hassle!"

Incogno: have fun and stay safe.

“I am a bisexual guy who is married. My partner is unaware that I am bisexual and I want to keep it that way. I used to have a spearate phone but that was more hassle than it was worth. Your incogno idea gives me more freedom... especially since I can get messages sent to my email account! ”

Incogno: Hmmm... how to answer this one... There are many reason why someone might want to protect their identity (and who are we to judge) and we see being gay or bisexual but not being “out” as a time where a person most needs the support of the internet and tools like Incogno.Please note: Incogno was developed to help people protect their identity, not hide it. Please be safe for you and your partner.

“I bought an Incogno when I first saw it on gaydar and I have been handing it out to everyone I chat to. I live near a nice dark local park and it is so much easier to arrange some fun when they have my number to guide them. “

Incogno: Hmmm... So long as it is safe and you are taking every precaution(!)… hope you are having fun. (you did mean meet to do some amateur star gazing...)

“I met this guy who I shagged a few times and he has turned into a real bunny boiler. I have had to change my phone and even had to tell my boss at work (to explain the calls). I wish I had used your service. Cheers”

Incogno: Maybe it is not the “Gay way” but it is still good to take your time to get to know someone before giving out personal details.

We appreciate all your feedback...


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